topic changed

topic has been changed in order to be rephrased and asked somewhere else, when better clarity can be achieved in draft form at the least

What?

was trying to create an advice topic: didnt word it right,and if i were to try to use it would be on way too complicated level for the average person, id be asking of too big a favor to anyone that could help me navigate my new surroundings in light of my arrangements, and accompanied backstory, and ive more than one question.
sorry guys